Improve development tooling (#1516)

- Running `yarn build` in a `packages/*/` directory will trigger build of all dependencies too, and cache them if possible.
- Fix for `yarn dev` breaking for `rrweb` package whenever changing files in `rrweb` package
- Update typescript, turbo, vite and vite-plugin-dts
- Require `workspaces-to-typescript-project-references` from `prepublish`

.vscode/rrweb-monorepo.code-workspace

@@ -94,6 +94,7 @@
       "@rrweb/rrweb-plugin-sequential-id",
       "@rrweb/rrweb-plugin-canvas-webrtc-record",
       "@rrweb/rrweb-plugin-canvas-webrtc-replay"
-    ]
+    ],
+    "typescript.tsdk": " rrweb monorepo/node_modules/typescript/lib"
   }
 }